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Someone just recently asked a question somewhat along the lines of yours - here is the link so you can read it - and within that thread is another link you might want to read too:<P><A HREF=../../../ubb/Forum19/HTML/000505.html><B>Jazz, Tap and Ballet Auditions</B></A><P>Now, I will try to give you my opinion about the specific questions you have asked - and they are good questions, too.<P>Angst - I am afraid - is part of life, for all of us no matter in what field we are in. It's how you handle the angst that determines to a large extent what happens. As you say, it isn't the 'end of the world', that's a good first step and a mature way to think about it. Here are some other ways to think about it.<P>Would you rather not be going to these auditions? If your answer is 'no' - then perhaps you need to rethink what you want from dance and in what direction you wish to take it. <P>If your answer is 'yes', auditions are part of a dancer's life and learning experience. Even an audition in which you don't get accepted as you would prefer, can teach you many things.<P>Auditions are not opportunities for failures, they are attempts at success. Sometimes it takes quite a number of tries to attain that success. It may help to have several plans in mind, alternatives in case Plan A doesn't quite work out. That's another of life's lessons.<P>Think of this as an opportunity to see the world around you, what other dancers are doing. As a means of learning about yourself. And the possibility for progress. How will you look back at this in ten years from now? Not getting into a specific school probably won't mean quite as much ten years from now. You will still have many opportunities to get out of dance whatever it is you put into it. <P>Try to see stand back from it, and see it in hindsight - its relative importance, its actual impact on the rest of your life, and that might help you to keep it in perspective.<P>I would suggest you approach it with all the joy of a performance. Dance is a performing art, if you don't perform it's like chewing and never swallowing. So, dance your audition.<P>As for wearing a leotard that you feel good about, I would suggest that you consult your teacher since she can see the size of the logo and give you more sure advice than I can without being able to see it.<P>And Lots of Luck to you!! Let us know what happens.<P>
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