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I don't want anyone to think I believe in "teacher bashing," per se, but --<P>Nearly every paper my fiance's son brings home, I have to go over with him myself to catch all the glaring errors the teacher does not catch. This has traditionally happened in Language and Social Studies courses. Example: He was given a mimeographed sheet that instructed him to write about various aspects of the "Artic" [sic]. This kind of goofiness puts a parent (and stepparent-to-be) in a quandary. I don't want to belittle the teacher to the child, but I can't let these errors just pass either. <P>We have had plenty of scandals in our state about teachers and salaries (being paid for work not done, incredible amounts of sick leave, etc.). There is plenty that stinks in Denmark -- or in this case, in the Bayou. We rank 50th out of 50 states. I plead for the 'court's indulgence' in this case about my inability to praise teachers across the board. This is why home schooling is growing so much in this area and why so many of my friends plan to leave the state when their children are of school age. <P>My stepson-to-be was in a play last year at his school for the first time. The woman directing it was hired as an outside director and made those children (11 years old) come to practice, no matter what the extent of their part, 4-5 times a week, from right after school until 9 p.m. Our boy was so dedicated to this play that the director wrote in a few lines for him (he was just standing there before). Then, one of his teachers assigned groups of 4-5 children to get together and work on a project outside of class. All of the children but our boy could make it on a particular Saturday. He went to the director and told her, one week ahead of time, that he needed time off from one rehearsal (not a dress rehearsal) to participate in this school project. She lambasted him. He came to us and asked what he should do. We told him that he needed to think this one through for himself and we would stand by him. He decided on his own to do the school project. We gave him our blessing on it. <P>When he came to the next practice, another boy, not the spineless director, came up to him and said that he would be replacing him for one of the two performances and that he would also have to share his costume (which we bought). The director backed up the other child. I spoke to the principal the following day (this was agreed upon by my fiance, whose work schedule would not allow the call, the boy, and I), who thought I was just a goofy little mother. In retaliation, he called the boy into his office and yelled at him. Moreover, the teacher who assigned the project wouldn't back him. He got a hard lesson in what doing the right thing cost him. This same principal, who, when learning what high school the child has just applied to, told him in front of his class, "You'll never get in."<P>Teaching is and always will be a noble profession, and there are many unsung heroes in the profession. But there are some real goofballs out there who need to go find a hole to crawl into instead of taking up space in our schools. <P><BR>I was very lucky. I had some pretty brittle nuns teaching me English in high school. It wasn't until the SECOND SEMESTER OF MY SENIOR YEAR that out of heaven (it was actually the hospital) came my saving grace -- the wonderful Sister John Eudes, portrayed by Hayley Mills in "The Trouble With Angels." That woman had a large enough heart and a small enough ego to praise and encourage me, so that in just a few short years I would receive top honors as a local columnist by the state newspaper association. <P>I understand that the above veers somewhat from the issue of whether PE has any merit in our school system. But I also think it's important to raise, among others, the issue of getting our children to learn how to balance their performing lives with academia. <BR>
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