Basheva:<P>Oh anybody can/should go see whatever they want. I just hope that they continue to offer some alternative stuff for those of us that aren't interested in it. Or are made uncomfortable by it.<P>And it's VERY considerate of them to "tell you what to expect".<P>About 9 years ago, I went to the annual spring performance of a local modern/jazz school here. It was all "OK" until the very end. They brought in two guest artists that were performing at the Center for the Arts that week, to "close the program".<P>That is the NEAREST (and it was a small theatre. 325 seats) I have ever been to witnessing "the act" right in front of me.<P>I wanted to bolt, and luckily my mother restrained my dad from doing just that, and embarrassing us all.<P><BR>Stuart:<P>Sure, all that stuff just boils down to "personality types". What you are interested in, and what you feel comfortable with.<P>I've walked away from conversations in offices where girls/guys were giving graphic details of "the night before". There are just somethings I'm not interested in knowing about other people. I'd surely hate to "witness it".<P>On ONE occassion I DID tell a guy in my livingroom that he needed to go somewhere else to "talk about that stuff" since it was his WIFE he was discussing with my husband and his friends. Not some girl he picked up off a bar stool

I just had no interest in "visualizing" her that way.<p>[This message has been edited by JaneGrey (edited February 14, 2001).]